One Year, And You’re Still Reading

Today marks the one year anniversary of when I first got up the guts to sign up for Blogger, pick the first blog name that came to mind (well, fourth actually – the others were already taken), and take the plunge into blogging.

Before that, I had been reading a few blogs for a little over a month, thanks to stumbling upon Blogging Baby earlier in the fall and clicking over to read the personal blogs of the writers there. I had a LiveJournal at the time, but it was for friends-only, and there was little more than a bunch of personality tests and a few random updates on my life here and there.

It’s hard to believe it has only been a year – I feel like I’ve been doing this for such a long time. In that year, I’ve written 315 posts, and who knows how many words. I’ve met some amazing people (both virtually and in person), and I am so thankful to have them in my life. Yes, I’ve met some trolls, too, but I’ve learned there really are nice people on the internet, and many people who have been through or are going through many of the issues I have had to deal with. It’s nice to not feel alone in battling those issues.

Looking back over the year, I can now safely say that I think I’m an OK writer. Not someone who can regularly bring people to tears or belly laughs, but I can get a story across decently without boring many readers. I see plenty of room for improvement, but hey, I have my own space to write here, so I have an endless supply of time and computer memory to work on my writing.

What a year it’s been. It all started just before Thanksgiving last year, when Cordy was 14 months old and still not walking yet. She had far less hair back then, and drove me insane with her refusal to take naps. When she did fall asleep, she did so with stealth, or just an inattentive parent. She got to play in the snow for the first time, and as Christmas drew near, we decided she was buying for all of us this year. We made it through the Christmas marathon, and I introduced you all to my crazy great Aunt Dot and her bad gifts. Just before the new year, Cordy made some big developmental leaps that made my life a hell of a lot easier.

The new year had a bite to it – well, actually, the new year started off with Cordy biting, and I shared with you how not to travel with a toddler. I also made a big decision around that same time that my life clearly wasn’t busy enough, so I went back to school. My blog became my confessional as I told you about my toddler who wouldn’t hold her own sippy cup, my struggle with depression, and the fact that Cordy is a TV junkie.

I’ve given my thoughts on mommyblogging, as well as on the stupid debate between stay-at-home and working moms, and wondered why there isn’t more part-time work. I’ve ranted about Babycenter, ranted about women peeing on the seat in the bathroom, pondered how we lived without cell phones, and shown you that when compared to kids 300 years ago, we’re easy on our kids. You also read of the disappointment I felt regarding having a c-section with Cordy, and why I don’t understand how women could willingly choose to go this route.

In the spring, you got front-row seats for the wrestling match of the century, and held my hand through a breast lump scare. You shared my fears of being stalked by the Avon lady, and gave me advice on what it was like to be a sibling or have more than one child. You learned I am a natural worrier, especially as a mother, and that I have a secret obsession with Maury Povich. I’ve also proven that I am now starting to look old.

I’ve dealt with parents treating my daughter like a freak because she’s big, store employees telling me my child is a pain, and dealing with the fallout of my daughter frightening other children. At the same time, I’ve also felt helpless to step in when someone else is treating a child badly. I also risked the ire of some bloggers to confess I gave Cordy scotch to help her teething pain.

July was a month of ups and down. You witnessed my first ever offline blogging post, written during a boring Chemistry class. I got a mid-month BlogHer test run by meeting a group of local bloggers, which has now turned into a monthly event I always look forward to. Then, two days before getting on that plane for BlogHer, I had the shock of coming home to find our house had been broken into and robbed in the middle of the day. I considered canceling the trip to BlogHer at that point because I was so upset, but in the end I decided I needed to get away. And thank goodness I did! BlogHer was so much fun!

In September, we experienced two happy events. First, I found out I was pregnant (and later reminded myself to never do this again), and then later in the month we celebrated Cordy’s second birthday. I also gave my tips on Halloween costumes and toddler clothing to avoid, and asked all of you to reflect on if you’re really happy.

It’s been a busy year here. Cordy has gone from crawling to walking, and from wisps of hair to a full head of curls. I started as a lonely mom, working part-time to make ends meet, blogging to get thoughts out of my head and hopefully find other moms to commiserate with, and now I’m back in school for a new career, expecting a second child with my loving husband (who graciously puts up with all I do), and I’ve found a wonderful, supportive community of moms, dads, and friends thanks to blogging.

Thank you for reading what I have to say, and thanks for those times when you leave a comment. Without people reading this and responding to my thoughts, I probably would have shut this personal project down long ago.

Here’s hoping for an even better second year.

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Comments

  1. Golly jeepers, batmama! Congratulations on your one year bloggiversary! You keep writing and we’ll keep reading. I hope you’re feeling decent this Thanksgiving. Have a great one!

    BTW, here’s some more fodder for you if you want to tackle it: Slipshod read a little about this to me this morning. You managed to get some good election results in your state, but there are still enough fundies there to build a Creationism Museum near Cincinatti… http://www.answersingenesis.org/museum/

  2. Holy crap woman that is a lot of links. I heart you. ;)

    Have a great Thanksgiving and happy first blogaversary!

  3. Happy happy first blogaversary :)

    You go girl :)

  4. Congrats on the one year!

    On your page, I always see a picture in flickr I hadn’t seen before or wanted to look at again. I can’t believe how much she has grown but yet, it somehow feels the same. Those curls! Sometimes she’s just so cute I feel like my heart’s gonna burst.

    Hope to see you this Thanksgiving weekend. You’ve gotta come play the Wii! And I’m way overdue for my dose of Cordi.

  5. Happy Blogoversary! Enjoy year-two.

  6. Congrats. It’s funny that so many of us starting blogging at the same time. :)

  7. Happy Blogiversary! I’ve loved every minute of reading your blog!

  8. Congratulations and happy blogiversary! That was one linkalicious post and a lot of fun to go back down memory lane with you. We started blogging about the same time and you have been one of the bloggers I have been reading the whole time.

    Big hugs to you and your family. Happy Thanksgiving.

  9. WOO! What a year! :) And if you wouldn’t have started a blog, we never would have met. Woo blogging.

  10. Happy Blog-iversary! And you are more than an okay writer. You keep me coming back again and again and I’ve got the attention span of a gnat.

    have a happy thanksgiving!

  11. Wow! Happy Blogiversary! Nice thoughts you wrote here, Christina, especially on this Thanksgiving Day.
    I enjoy your blog… your stories about Cordy and everything.

    Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!
    I think Digging the Best out of Us as Parents would be a wonderful little present for you, your friends and families. Hope you enjoy it!
    And would you please leave a comment after you see it? Thanks so much!

    Love,
    Adwina

  12. Christina,
    I’ve only just started reading your blog recently, but you’re a fine writer who I enjoy!

    Congratulations on one year!

  13. Happy Anniversary Christina.

    You, my dear are more than a good writer. You are a great writer. Which is why I keep coming back.

    That, and who can resist Cordy’s curls?

    Congrats to you and yours and I look forward to the next year…

  14. Happy Blog-a-versary! You are MORE than a merely “OK” writer, my friend.

    And that football game was fantastic, wasn’t it?! GO BUCKS!!!

  15. Yeah, what mothergoosemouse said …

    And have a great Thanksgiving :)

  16. I link you up in my blog post, Christina.

    It’s in Happy Thanksgiving. Hope you like it :)

  17. I certainly wouldn’t be checking your blog every day if I thought you were a crappy writer! You have a great blog!

    And I never thought blogging had such a community – BlogHer looked like a blast.

    Happy Blogiversary!

  18. Happy Bloggy Birfday!

  19. Happy Bloggiversary!!! Keep on doing what you’re doing – it’s great!

  20. Happy Anniversary!

  21. Great roundup. You’ve had a wonderful year, busy mom!

    Happy Belated Thanksgiving and happy blogiversary, too!

  22. Happy Blogiversary to you Christina!!!! The blogosphere just wouldn’t be the same without you.

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